At the Start of a New School Year

The Autumn Semester begins this week at Ohio State University where I’ll be returning from sabbatical and a summer unlike any other in my life. As many of you know, my wife Cathy was diagnosed with breast cancer and is still going through chemotherapy. She’s gone through the roughest part of her treatment and is doing well in this second phase. I’ve been with her through her treatment and will continue to be there as it continues. I hate to leave her alone on the days I teach, but she assures me she’ll be fine.

We’ve been blessed with some good days lately. In fact, there have been times when our lives have seemed nearly normal. Cathy has more energy, so we’ve been out with friends a time or two, and Cathy has been able to go shopping with me. She’s had to rest less and has resumed some of the household chores. She might even like to get in our pool, but, alas, the days and nights have cooled, making the thought of a dip a chilling one. Oh, well. We celebrate the blessings we have, and we look forward to our next summer which we hope will be a better one.

We have a sign hanging in our living room that says, “Life does not have to be perfect to be wonderful.” Cathy and I have been doing our best to look for the beauty amid the imperfection. We’ve received so many cards, messages, and gifts from friends. We’ve found reasons to laugh. We’ve enjoyed watching the birds and squirrels and rabbits that come to feed on our patio. We’ve taken pleasure from listening to the water moving in our pool. We’ve relished the comfort and the antics of our two orange tabby cats, Stella and Stanley. I’ve even managed to keep writing a bit. My goal was to have a rough draft of a new novel finished by this time. I didn’t quite make it, but I came darned close. I’ve had conversations with a few of our MFA students, even holding what I called an “office hour” in the lobby of The James Cancer Hospital when Cathy was there.

We’ve felt the love from so many of you, and we hope we’ve given as much as we’ve received. Now here we are at the end of summer. This morning, we went out to check on our backyard garden and were pleased to see our fall plantings of lettuce, radishes, and turnips had come up. A garden, of course, is a project built on hope and luck, and that’s what I hope for my students as our time together is set to begin. I hope for their good health and their prosperity. I wish myself luck in saying the right things so I can be helpful in their writers’ journeys. I also hope for their understanding when I fall short of giving them everything they deserve. As you can imagine, any profession is harder when your personal life competes for attention. I give myself to Cathy wholly and without complaint. I hope my students will understand when I’m a little slower than usual in answering their emails or a little less present in the day-to-day life of our program. I promise I’ll do my best not to let them down just as I promise to always be there for Cathy when she needs me.

This will be my 45th year of teaching. I remember accompanying my mother to her grade school in the heat of August when she was readying her classroom for a new year. I also recall the nights she stayed up late, writing lesson plans, grading tests, and doing this all while caring for me and my father, whose farming accident left him dependent on her for more than he would have typically required. I never heard her utter a word of complaint. I imagine now how weary she must have been, but I know she loved her students, and she loved my father, and she loved me. She taught for over forty years. In retirement, she listened to the bright voices of the little girls passing her house on their way to or from school, and she told me how much she missed teaching whenever she heard them. I’m grateful I’ve inherited her love for teaching just as I’m grateful for the love I feel from Cathy. Here, at the start of a new school year, I wish the best for all of us. May we find much to please us even when things are less than perfect.

8 Comments

  1. Nettie Reynolds on August 25, 2026 at 9:52 pm

    Beautiful piece and sending you and Cathy support. My mom, a reading and then ESL teacher also taught for over 40 years retiring at 78. What a wondrous thing to have a Mom who is a teacher and lives on in the world through all the students they touched. And how you too continue to teach and build new seeds of creative sparks in all those you teach.

  2. Virginia Chase Sutton on August 26, 2026 at 11:35 pm

    Loved this post so much, Lee so glad things are going well, better than the treatment in the past. My Mother was a high school English teacher, utterly devoted to her students. I still hear from them about her teaching, her love of the classroom. Of course, at home she was a difficult woman, cruel, desperately unhappyy, an alcoholic always looking for thrills. But she loved her students and their work. I became a college English professor, my daughter recently became an English teacher. We both are poets, and Mother was never able to access her creativity. She died young, 62, after a disastrous brain aneurysm at 40. But she passed on that love of teaching. And I am grateful for that, and other things. I’m so happy you are able to be in the world of teaching, your new book, and the amazing bond you and Cathy share. What a love story!

  3. Lee Martin on August 28, 2026 at 11:28 am

    Virginia, your mother’s story is evidence of an inescapable truth; we are all complicated characters. What a legacy of teaching. I’m glad you still hear from your mother’s students who experienced the very best of her.

  4. Glenda Beall on August 28, 2026 at 11:21 pm

    This is such a beautiful post. I relate as my husband had cancer and I was with him for over a year in the hospital and at home. We, too, shared many happy times on our deck up high in the tree tops of North Carolina. I am a teacher. I taught kindergarten and fourth grade. I loved my kids. Now I teach writing on Zoom to senior adults who want to write their stories.
    My heart goes out to you as you try your best with your students, but must always put Cathy first. You are a good man. Don’t forget to take care of yourself, however. Get plenty of rest, sleep, and exercise. You and Cathy are in my prayers.

    • Lee Martin on August 30, 2026 at 12:08 pm

      Glenda, I’m sorry you had to go through that with your husband. As you know, cancer takes us into an unfamiliar world where we long to find the familiar. In that way, I suppose it’s a bit like writing. I loe the fact that you teach senior adults. They’re always an interesting crowd, and the rewards are mighty both for them and for us.

  5. Margaret Whitford on August 30, 2026 at 11:00 am

    A lovely piece, Lee. Thank you. You have touched more lives as a teacher than you are likely to ever know. I am one of those people, and cherish the times I was able to spend with you and Cathy at VCFA’s PGW Conference.

    Take care of Cathy and yourself. Sending much love to both of you.

    • Lee Martin on August 30, 2026 at 12:05 pm

      Thank you, Margaret. All things considered, Cathy and I are doing well.

      Good luck with your wonderful book!

      Much love back to you and Tom

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